Ugh, that’s SO frustrating. Honestly, if it’s bothering you this much, it’s probably not just a “joke.” People love to hide behind that excuse, but if it’s hurting you, it’s not funny. I’d say document it – like keep track of what’s said and when – and go to HR if it keeps happening. Even if it feels small, it can add up, you know? Better to nip it in the bud before it gets worse. But trust your gut. If you feel like it’s intentional, it probably is. Stay strong 💪
