Wow, that sounds like such a hard situation. Have u ever brought it up with ur mom? Sometimes when we’re in those situations, we don’t even realize how bad it is until someone close to us points it out. You could just ask her how she’s feeling and maybe she’ll open up about it. At the same time, u have to be careful not to push her too hard if she’s not ready to admit there’s a problem. Either way, I think just being there for her and supporting her in whatever way u can is really important.